What to do if a guy looks at you?

In the life of every representative of the fair sex, there comes a moment when she catches a male gaze on herself. At this time, the girl’s thoughts are occupied by the question: “ What is the guy thinking when he looks at me? To understand this, it is enough to master certain information, learn to observe a young man and correctly evaluate his reaction.

So, you are in a large hall at a formal meeting. There are a lot of unfamiliar faces around and there is a vague suspicion that someone is literally “drilling” you with a look. Try to look at the neighboring rows with peripheral vision, throwing short glances to the right, then to the left. The hardest part is turning back to confirm your suspicion.

In this case, you can pretend that you are looking for someone in a large audience. If your intuition has not failed you, then there is an opportunity to “catch” a persistent male gaze. Once this has happened, then turn towards the stranger again and look into his eyes more intently. If there really is sympathy and interest on his part, then he will obviously be embarrassed and look away.

But if the young man is more cocky, then he may smile or even wink at you. It may happen that his look is simply accident. The response from the guy can be sincere surprise. In that case, you don't need to ask any more questions - just go about your business.

A man's gaze can say a lot. In some cases, even words fade before the sharp gaze of the individual. Therefore, once in the entertainment zone: a birthday, a concert, a club, a disco - learn to "read" in the eyes of a young man. Especially if you see him for the first time. Usually a man betrays his interest if he starts to slide his eyes over your figure as a whole.

If a young man is at a considerable distance, then in addition to his “eye to eye” look, you can guess that he is visually “feeling” your entire figure. What to do in this case? If you understand that you are not against further acquaintance, then you can send him a similar look. Otherwise, just start avoiding his eyes and focus on something else.

During dating and in the early stages of courtship, gaze is an important part of the love game. With extreme caution should be treated frank views. If you make no attempt to avoid staring at your intimate areas and send back signals to your partner, then the guy may take this as a guide to more active actions.

Remember that the intimate look in men and women manifests itself a little differently. The girl is usually given dilated pupils and she tends to look her partner in the eyes. The man, for his part, seemed to sprays» your gaze, stopping at the neck, décolleté, waist and legs.

At the same time, he periodically returns to the face and eyes of the partner. In any case, if a person is unpleasant to you or his frank examination is unacceptable, then portray an indifferent or even businesslike look. This will allow you to psychologically close yourself from male eyes and, perhaps, cool his fighting spirit.

Psychologists believe that a single recipe is not enough to recognize this feeling. After all, every individual is different. It should be understood that the look of a young person and his behavior directly depend on the natural temperament and upbringing. But common signs that can be reflected in men's eyes still exist.


For example, direct eye contact. In most cases, this excites the girl and makes her feel in seventh heaven. Although one point is still worth considering! Pay attention to the energy of the male gaze. What is it: warm, soft? Or cold and calculating? The fact is that a direct look into the eyes, “seasoned” with negativity, can express hidden prudence or even hostility.

If the guy is close enough, then focus on his pupils. In a man in love, they expand and give the look a kind of “wide open”. Of course, all this suggests that the guy is extremely passionate about you and his feelings are moving to the stage of falling in love.

Unfortunately, if a young man is melancholic or phlegmatic by nature, then he may not go beyond this view. You'll have to take matters into your own hands and ask the guy out on a date.

By the way, scientists have come to the conclusion that a truly interested guy will not “shoot” his eyes in the direction of other girls. If a man does not take his eyes off you and often does not hear other interlocutors at this moment, then there is no doubt! He is without looking back in love into you, even if he doesn't say it out loud.

In the modern world, there are many techniques for seducing a girl. Guys who know the rules of a pickup truck work out some tricks to automatism. Among them is the seduction of the gaze. Let's try to find out the ladies' man by his acting eyes.

In addition, it should be noted that such a person has a special sleekness and stylish appearance. The purpose of the womanizer is to “hook” the girl without falling in love with her. Initially, such a guy will focus on his look. What is he?

First of all, he will single out an object for sympathy from a large crowd. He will not aggressively attack the girl with his eyes from the first minutes. At first, his eyes will show absent-mindedness, and maybe even a bored mood. But it's kind of trick!

The young man is well aware of how to proceed. He briefly looks you straight in the eye, then looks away. After several such visual messages, you will understand that you are interested. As soon as the guy makes sure that you have noticed him, he will begin to take a closer look at you.

At the same time, you may get the feeling that the guy is embarrassed and stealthily evaluates your hair, lips, neck. After all, his goal is not to scare you away with assertive attention, but to interest and win over you. The tenderness and affection that exudes the look of a womanizer are able to "lull" any girl.


How to know by the look of a guy that he is a womanizer?

You are well aware that his visual signals languidly sing about sympathy. The sharp gaze of a gentle predator glides over your figure. It gradually “envelops” with a sweet dope and makes you think that you are a real goddess at this party!

There is no hint of vulgarity and vulgarity in such a look. Men's eyes express genuine openness and admiration. At the same time, you may not notice that he throws similar looks to several more participants in the evening. After all, Lovelace never do not belong one girl! But he quite convincingly expresses with his look that you are the only one who affects him at the moment.

During all this time, he did not speak with a single female representative, demonstrating his readiness to continue acquaintance only with you. You succumb to these sensations and express silent consent with your eyes. The guy gladly accepts your return look and seeks to look as "deeper" as possible into your eyes. By this, he shows that he is not only fascinated by your appearance, but is also ready to recognize you as a person.

Such skill allows you to think that the young man is aimed at a long-term acquaintance. His whole burning gaze is an excuse to close the distance between you. Some men play this "shooting" with their eyes for a long time. When eye contact is established between you, the guy moves on to the next step.


Do not give in to the gaze of the guy - lovelace

Now he can more boldly caress your face with his eyes, highlighting your nose, then lips and neck, slowly descending lower. Such a sensual game of male eyes makes the girl burn with curiosity and melt. If you submit to the gaze of such a guy, then half the success is in his pocket! The following actions can be as follows: he will come up to invite you to a dance, frankly playing with an alluring look.

Some girls, bewitched by such eyes, themselves find a reason to approach a man.. After all, he skillfully aroused not indignation in his partner, but a pleasant wave of excitement. All this time, he is using eye contact not to forcefully retain the girl's interest that has arisen. Lovelace wants to make sure that the girl does not feel the danger of the game, but relaxes and takes another step into the world of her dreams.