I really like one man - a colleague. We have been working in the same company for more than one year. I like everything about it. How he looks, how he dresses, his manners. He is very personable. How can he make a smart joke? Knows how to make little surprises. For example, unexpectedly put a chocolate bar for us at the computers. We don't even ask who did it. We know that other men are simply not capable of this.

And most importantly, the one I like is not married. True, I don’t know anything about the woman I love. Maybe he has it, maybe he doesn't. I've never seen him with a lady. I try, of course, to please him. But so far to no avail. It seems to me that he does not yet single me out as an object for a relationship. He treats him well, is attentive, but like everyone else. And my friend, who saw him a couple of times, for some reason concluded that he was a Casanova. It seemed to her that his eyes somehow darted over the woman’s body. I don't know, I don't think so. How do they run? And how could it be otherwise? And all men look at women. That's why they are men.

How can I please him? It is also very interesting to find out what a man first of all pays attention to when he sees a woman. For some reason, we are all sure that it is on the chest. If this is really the case, then I'm fine with it. And the rest of the body is pretty decent. I won’t praise myself, but I am regularly friends with the fitness club.

By the way, I asked this question to my brother. And he replied that he looks first of all at what stands out the most. This, they say, is the law of nature. If a lady has large breasts, then, naturally, they are the first thing that catches your eye. If the eyes are expressive, then he looks at them. It is impossible to look at everything at once. And still. Perhaps this is not a question for the newspaper. Well, what if, I thought, I’ll get the most necessary advice from you, because I always read the page about men and women. Waiting for a hint!

Marina

If a man looks into your eyes for a long, long time, you can be sure that he has already looked at everything else.

OPINION

Yuri MALYUKOV copywriter

A little bit of everything! You can write strips about this. After all, we are talking about a woman. Can you express all the emotions in a few words?! But in short, I’ll note that first of all I pay attention to the eyes. Agree, it is the eyes that can tell about a woman’s disposition towards me. If further communication takes place, then further assessment of physiological parameters occurs. To be more precise, this is the structure of the face, the shape and color of the eyes, the shape of the lips and nose. Further attention is paid to the shape and size of the chest, waist and hips, height, length and hair color. But when communicating, lips really attract attention, because information appears from there. But that's my opinion. I don’t pretend that it will coincide with the thoughts of the majority of male representatives.

Reading a man by his gestures...

From zalclub.com

If you want to know whether a man is interested in you, do not forget to monitor not only his statements towards you, but also how he behaves.

1. “Maybe” signal

If at a meeting during your speech he begins to fiddle with your tie, collar, touches your neck or touches your hair, and the toe of your foot is turned in your direction, then he is clearly interested in you. Perhaps he is only attracted to what you are talking about.

2. Signal “I’m not lying”

If during a conversation a man does not hide his palms, but, on the contrary, shows them and raises them up, most likely he is speaking sincerely.

3. Signal “I want to be closer”

The distances to which we are willing to allow people to approach us vary depending on the area in which we grew up (city dwellers have shorter distances than villagers). The classic “public” distance is about 3.5 m or more; business from 1.5m to 3.5m; friendly - from 0.75 m to 1.5 m; and closer – intimate. If the interlocutor is trying to get closer to you, it means he wants to be closer not only in the literal sense of the word.

4. Signal “I would like to hug you…”

If a man, while communicating with you, simultaneously spreads his arms (leaning on the staircase railing or the back of a chair), this is a hidden symbol of a hug.

5 Signal “I like you”

His touch can tell a lot. 1) If his palm turns upward when shaking hands, he is ready to obey you. 2) “Glove” - when his two palms clasp one palm, he expresses sincerity and friendliness. 3) If a man touches your hand or elbow, this is a sign of sympathy.

6. Signal “I want to please”

A man begins to preen at the sight of a woman he likes, much like animals do during mating season. He puts himself in order “from head to toe” - suddenly he remembers that he needs to comb his hair, shake dust off his shoulder, straighten up, suck in his stomach, straighten his sleeves, and so on.

7. “I want you” signal

Hands on hips when a man is standing, legs outstretched when he is sitting, and finally, thumbs tucked behind a belt - all these positions serve only to demonstrate to the woman his own attractiveness and draw attention to the genital area.

8. Signal “I don’t need anything!”

I don’t believe it: his index finger touches his nose, the rest covers his mouth - he doesn’t believe you and doesn’t want to be frank.

I want to escape: If, in addition to the “I don’t believe it” signal, he fiddles with his ear or rubs some other parts of his face, then he is openly burdened by your conversation and thinks about how to quickly end it and disappear.

You are not interesting for me: if he prefers to keep at a “pioneer” distance, leans in the opposite direction in a conversation or speaks slightly away - alas, this person is not particularly interested in you, to say the least.

I'm fine without you: a limp, weak handshake indicates that he does not want to close the distance.

The following actions can be considered alarming, but not frightening: he puts his hands in his pockets, hides his palms, crosses his legs or arms, hides his legs under a chair. Such behavior can be interpreted in different ways, depending on the situation.

...and in the eyes

Look up and to the right– represents something that he has seen before.

Look up and left– fantasizes or lies.

Looking “horizontally” to the left- remembers what he once heard.

Looking “horizontally” to the right- thinks about what to lie, how to construct a phrase.

Look down to the right in - is in experiences, feelings, emotions..

Looking down to the left- conducts a dialogue with himself.

A long look in your direction- indicates the sincerity of his intentions.

Dilated pupils- a sure sign of passion if the man did not drink, did not take drugs and is not in a room with poor lighting.

"Wandering Eye" and a hand supporting his head - he is bored.

His eyes are directed towards the center of your forehead or the bridge of your nose.– business view.

Frequent movements of his eyes along the “eyes-mouth” trajectory- a friendly look.

A sliding glance from the eyes and lower throughout the body, and then back– an intimate look.