The guy decided to kiss his girlfriend for the first time. How to choose the right place, circumstances and do it right?

Before proceeding to action, you need to give yourself an account - are you ready for the first kiss. And if the answer is yes, then it's time to prepare for this thoroughly.

What do you need to know?

First kiss can happen anytime and anywhere.

If there is a soul mate to which you are not indifferent, then sooner or later this will happen. Where can you find the first kiss?

Disco, house entrance, empty stands after a football match, right on the street - any of these places can be remembered by you forever. Because it is there that such an exciting event can and will happen.

Time spent together with loved ones is always pleasant and memorable. It will sparkle with new colors at the first kiss, which accompanies the state of unearthly bliss and pleasure.

I want to extend this moment of touching with my lips more and more. However, there is no need to rush. In this matter, the main thing is not to rush things.

Good advice to teenagers from adults - there will still be many kisses ahead.

And it is very important in a fit of vanity and haste don't ruin the first impression from such an exciting event. And that is often what happens. Therefore, you should always remember that there will be no second chance to kiss the first time.

How much time should pass?

It is very important that the guy in this matter is not in a hurry.

If you insist on your own and kiss the girl prematurely, then with such an act you can once and destroy relationships forever. You should not make such a mistake.

It should always be remembered that girls have a great weakness for romantic relationships. The guy should look after, show all kinds of signs of attention, fly on the wings of love around his beloved.

When the girl is ready for the first kiss, she will let you know with her behavior and give an ambiguous signal.

A simple example. The guy led his girlfriend to the entrance. She is in no hurry to go home, stands, keeps up the conversation. This is a kind of signal that she does not mind kissing.

And here you need to act decisively. On the other hand, if a girl is in a hurry to go home, she says that her parents will swear and have been waiting for her for a long time, then in this case we are not talking about a kiss.

There is no specific time frame which can be used in this matter. Each case is individual. Everything will happen by itself when the right moment comes.

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Kiss on the first date

Guys and girls react differently to kissing on a first date.

To begin, consider male view of this event:

1. Kissing a girl on a first date is completely normal behavior for a guy. Thus, he claims rights to her, confesses his sympathy and confirms the seriousness of his intentions.
2. If the relationship with the girl is not serious and the goal pursued by the date is a non-committal relationship, then the guy will try to kiss his girlfriend as soon as possible in order to be able to move on to more active actions.
3. In the matter of the first kiss, the guys are usually the initiators. But they also have doubts and self-doubt.

A woman's first kiss. Here everything is somewhat more complicated. A girl's attitude to the first kiss is influenced by many factors. This is previous experience, views, expectations, upbringing.

In addition, there is an opinion among girls that only ladies of easy virtue kiss on the first date. And so they behave accordingly.

What are the goals of the girls agreeing to a kiss on the first date:

• gain experience, analyze mistakes and subsequently not make them;
• how best to understand yourself and relationships;
• assess the situation and find out how much the guy likes it;
• make a final decision. Should I continue my relationship with my boyfriend?

Who should kiss?

The question of how to behave on a first date is eternal and relevant.

Girls and boys are discussing this topic, but they have not come to a single conclusion.

Who should kiss first? The ideal option would be if it happened at the same time. Of course, this is not always the case.

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How to kiss a girl on the lips for the first time? If a guy is cute to a girl, then she is unlikely to object to a kiss even on a first date.

If this did not happen, but had a second date, then you need to be prepared for the fact that next time everything will definitely happen.

After all, the consent on the part of the girl to meet again clearly speaks of the manifestation of her sympathy.

During a date, you should carefully observe the behavior of your companion. It is possible that she herself will want to take a step towards and take the initiative.

What you should pay attention to:

If the girl herself does not take the initiative, then it's time to take control of the situation into her own hands. After all, the girl came on a date that already says that the guy is not indifferent to her.

And the first kiss on the lips will certainly happen if you do not make the following mistakes:

1. No need to ask your chosen one if you can kiss her. With this question, the romantic mood will be destroyed. In addition, asking about this, the guy puts himself in a position of insecure in his abilities and charm. Better to go straight to action.
2. If, when trying to kiss, the girl does not reciprocate, one should not lose self-control and a sense of tact. Do not immediately after that call the young lady frigid. Patience and more patience. You should continue the conversation at ease and after a while repeat the attempt to kiss your chosen one on the lips.
3. Gentle hugs promote physical contact. However, you do not need to immediately touch the young lady for intimate places and climb up to her with a French kiss.

   Most likely, she will not appreciate such a passionate impulse. And simply run away, thus eliminating all hopes for a second meeting.

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How to behave after?

After the first kiss, many begin to feel discomfort and shame.

The root of this psychological problem lies in the fact that since childhood it was forbidden to do this. You could kiss mom and dad on the cheek.

But when it came to kissing on the lips with a member of the opposite sex, there has already been a suggestion that this is bad. Hence, an awkward situation arises, accompanied by a sense of acute shame.

Another possible reaction to a first kiss is laughter. Also not the best behaviour. Thus, you can seriously offend or embarrass your chosen one to death.

Should be learned - the first kiss is a natural process which inevitably happens in a person's life. Sooner or later it happens to everyone. It is possible that the first kiss was not as romantic as we would like.

But what has been done cannot be taken back. And when the emotions subside, and the thoughts in the head come in order, this situation will begin to be perceived more rationally and will no longer seem like something out of the ordinary.

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