Women's psychology and behavior are unpredictable and mysterious. Unraveling feelings and verifying their authenticity is not always so easy. How to understand that a girl likes you if she does not say it directly?

The main signs of sympathy

Finding out that a girl likes you is quite simple if you follow her behavior.

• She will constantly follow you with her eyes, but look away if you look at her. Some girls prefer to be flirtatious and look directly into the eyes without looking down timidly.
• If she likes you, the girl will go through the strands and wind them around her finger, throw her hair over one shoulder, exposing her neck, shake her hair.
• More daring girls make it clear that they like you by biting their lips or smiling slightly when your eyes meet. More timid girls let you know they like you by looking down and blushing when you look.
• As for body language, you can tell if a girl likes you by gestures and gait. She tries to take the most relaxed and beautiful pose when talking, deliberately walks beautifully near you, sits straight, laughs loudly and gesticulates, if she is not talking to you, in order to attract attention.

Sympathy of an unfamiliar girl

Understanding that a girl likes you at school, university, or at work is easier than understanding whether a girl likes or dislikes you, whom you don’t even really know. It’s rather stupid to immediately approach and get to know each other, as it may turn out that you are not her type, and the efforts were in vain.

In addition to the above signs that a girl you know likes you, there are a few more nuances if she is unfamiliar.

• For example, sitting at a nearby table in a restaurant, she plays with her jewelry, a glass, smiles slightly when she meets her eyes.
• Another signal that a girl likes you is, for example, a blouse accidentally slipping off her shoulder, a beautiful and relaxed posture, a gait if she passes by you.
• She can also defiantly flirt with an interlocutor if a woman likes you. A sign that a girl likes you can be talking loudly and laughing as a way to get attention.
• The signal from an unfamiliar girl may be more specific. She may ask you to look at her table while she leaves, speak to you first, ask for a cigarette. Only a stupid man can miss such a chance without understanding the signals.

By social networking

How to determine that a guy likes women by correspondence? Indeed, today social networks are becoming almost the main way to find new acquaintances.

A girl she likes can often visit your page, follow the news posted on it, actively comment and flirt in the comments. Perhaps she will be subscribed to the same publics and post the same news, hinting at the similarity of interests.

In discussions, she will speak at your side, and in messages she can ask for help if she likes your company. To please, it is enough to answer her request and not ignore these signs.

Sympathy after several dates

Of course, if a guy has been dating a girl for a long time, he does not have a question: “Does she like me or not?” But if there were only a couple of innocent meetings, it can be difficult for guys to understand whether they like them or not.

You will understand that there really is sympathy, by the fact that she is always ready to communicate and rarely disappears from sight. She will gladly talk on the phone or skype, answer the message. She also reports on her plans, for example, that on Saturday she will go with her family to the country or with a friend in a cafe.

If she likes everything about you, she will talk a lot about herself, introduce her to her friends and try to look amazing on every date.

The girl will ask your advice and opinion on any issue, listen to him carefully and thank you - such female tactics should not be neglected, subconsciously a woman wants to be weaker than a man and demand his help.

She will also want you to share what you know, talk about your life and yourself. She will not be indignant if you invite her to a cafe, that the establishment is cheap, the wine is tasteless and the atmosphere is terrible. She will be interested with you everywhere.

Language of the body

An important role in the psychology of sympathy is body language. Sympathy is manifested in the fact that she sincerely wants to please and make friends. If she sits sideways, this indicates a readiness for dialogue. If she sits in an open position, at ease and calmly, this is a sign of sympathy.

A sign that you are not indifferent to her may be visiting the same places that you visit, changing your habits, appearance, wardrobe, hairstyle, makeup.

In addition, when talking, her pupils may dilate, her cheeks blush, her eyelashes tremble slightly, and her eyes look down in embarrassment. She may also avoid looking directly.

Often, girls avoid those they like, show demonstrative indifference, walk away from conversations and completely withdraw. This also indicates feelings, but something does not allow her to show them.

Subconsciously, a woman may seek touch. Accidentally hit with a shoulder, lightly touch with a hip, as if by chance colliding in a corridor, grabbing a hand, enthusiastically telling something.

If she asks for help in something, jokes, says that she is cold or hungry - these are attempts to attract attention to herself. Do not miss such moments - offer to go for a bite to eat or offer her your jacket, and communication will improve on its own.

Features of temperament

Not everyone is ready to show their sympathy. There are shy and melancholic individuals who, on the contrary, are afraid of their feelings. In this case, everything will be completely opposite. She will not catch the eye, impose, start conversations. Often such a person also has a lot of complexes.

Considering herself unworthy of attention, comparing with girls who are popular with the opposite sex, she will in every possible way avoid even the shortest meetings, turn away and even run away.

It is easiest to establish communication with such a person in private or on a social network, when no one looks at her and does not condemn, does not mock, as it seems to her.

Girls with a more open character, on the contrary, try to attract attention, speak loudly, laugh, make friends with the friends of the person they like. It is possible that she herself can come up and make an acquaintance, not considering this something shameful and wrong.

Another pattern of behavior is indifference. Such women pretend not to notice the young man, respond only with friendship and do not give any hope for a relationship. They are waiting to be courted, but it is too difficult to recognize, because spending months on a person who may not even tolerate your presence is stupid.

Company of friends

The easiest way to notice sympathy in a company. A girl can be timidly interested in mutual friends about your person, or ask to introduce you and this will not oblige anyone to anything - after all, you are in the same society and have the right to know each other, at least out of courtesy.

When it comes to employees, the situation is similar. Whatever hierarchy you are in, you will always find yourself familiar with each other. Then she may ask you to help her with something or keep company at dinner, she will compliment your work success or appearance, as if in a friendly way.

Conclusion

Unraveling the emotions and feelings of another person is not an easy task. On the other hand, if a person really shows interest, it is difficult not to notice him and there is no need to doubt - you can always find a reason for communication and friendship, and then get to know each other better. If all these signs aren't enough, it might be worth talking directly and figuring out your relationship.