While my sweet little baby is sleeping, I decided to tell my story, there will be a lot of letters in it, so be patient to read to the end, whoever is interested. Perhaps for someone it will turn out to be something instructive, maybe someone will recognize themselves in it.

So, back in 2000, when I was 20 years old, I committed a terrible sin - an abortion, the murder of my own child. I know there is no forgiveness for me, so I immediately ask you not to condemn me and throw slippers at me. When I did this, I didn’t think at all about what would happen in my life next.

Years passed, I got married at the age of 28, having met a loved one. We did not talk about planning a child, but immediately proceeded to action. Then I had a double feeling: on the one hand, I understood that I had committed a terrible sin and now God could never give me children at all, on the other hand, I wanted to believe that everything would work out in the near future, because at one time, I repented in this sin at confession…. How wrong I was and did not imagine what a long way we had to go.

So, the autumn of 2008 has come, we are leaving for Moscow. Month or two, nothing came out. And then on some forum I found a topic where the relics of the Matrona of Moscow were discussed. What were there amazing stories, went a couple of times and pregnancy came. Yep...how? With my fibroids in the uterus, which I knew about, but the doctors assured me that it was nothing to worry about. How naive I was then, thinking that I would powder Matronushka a couple of times and my pregnancy would come to me. Even now I am ashamed of these thoughts. Having taken time off from work, she stood in the cold for the first time in two queues: one for the relics, one for the icon. During the period of our stay in Moscow, I went to Matrona 7 times, once with my husband.

Morally, it was very difficult for me to live in another city, and I was looking for support in the temple. I began to go to confession and communion more often. When we decided to be examined for non-pregnancy and I found out that my fibroids had doubled, I was shocked, the doctors scared me of the operation. And then I went to the city of Yakhroma, there is miraculous icon St. Simeon the Myrrh-streaming, ordered a prayer service for the gift of a child.

Then, I learned about the Church of St. Life-Giving Trinity on Mud, about the icon of David of Gareji, that every Monday at 17.00 there is a water-blessed prayer service for the gift of children. I tried to go whenever I had the opportunity, since the work schedule allowed. There are so many women who want children and cannot, their eyes were full of tears and despair…. However, like mine... Those who succeeded also came to the prayer service together with the children, so touching to tears. I asked God to forgive me, to have mercy on me as a murderer, to direct me on the right path, to send a competent doctor. I asked him to send us children at least sometime ... ..

Around the same time, I went to the Zachatievsky Monastery, bought an icon of the Merciful, and read an akathist to it.

The year 2010 came and we returned to our city. In our city on Saturdays they read a prayer service with an akathist to St. Matrona of Moscow, she also tried to go always, at the first opportunity. She went to church, went to confession, took communion, asked God for a baby. At home, she read akathists to Matrona, Our Lady of Mercy, Our Lady of Unexpected Joy, and read prayers to David of Gareji. In an icon shop I bought an akathist for wives who killed babies in their wombs, read for 40 days with the blessing of the priest. And every time I turned to God to forgive me for my terrible sin.

It so happened that we delayed the examination and treatment, then my husband could not get to the doctor, then I was afraid to go. As a result, what they had at that time: I have secondary infertility, uterine fibroids, 7 cm, only surgery. My husband has leukospermia, everything was treated with antibiotics and vitamins. In September 2011, I had an abdominal operation.

November 2011, the belt of the Holy Mother of God arrived in Rostov-on-Don. My husband and I decided we had to go. After the trip, they wore belts for 40 days, but the husband never went to confession.

May 2012, I'm going to visit relatives in Moscow. In Moscow, I again visited Matrona, in the Zachatievsky Monastery I ordered a prayer service to St. Joachim and Anna for the gift of children for six months, I bought a belt consecrated from their icon, icon, oil. I was in the Church of the Holy Trinity on Gryazeh, defended the water-blessed prayer service to David of Gareji.

Arriving home, she began to wear a belt, taking it off only for the time of bathing and smearing oil on her stomach. She also continued to go to church. In two or three monasteries, I don’t remember now, I ordered an indestructible psalter for six months about me and my husband.

October 2012, a difficult situation developed at my job, I had to quit. I began to read the akathist to the Holy Fathers of God Joachim and Anna, and read it every day. I bought a psalter and began to read it little by little. Time passed, the husband received medical treatment, it was time to plan after the operation. My health was not going well again, it seems like after the operation two fibroids reappeared, only small ones. Found new job close to home, continued to go to church, now she tried to go to confession and communion every month.

December 2012 I went to the post office and ordered a prayer service for the gift of children in the Zachatievsky Monastery.

Suddenly, by chance on some Orthodox website, I met a woman who read the Psalter one day and huge changes took place in her life. I came for a blessing to the priest, to which he told me that just read, and most importantly, read in full both morning and evening prayers. And I began to read them in full, but the thought of reading the psalter did not let me go, it seemed to me the last clue. And one Sunday I mastered the reading of the entire Psalter. I asked God very, very much already, not that he would send us a baby, but that he would send at least some kind of resolution to the situation: either continue to be examined and treated further, or if we are not destined to have children, then so be it. and will be. I tried to imagine how we would live without children, what to spend our energy on ... ... It was in January 2013.

What was my bewilderment to see two stripes on the test in February. What is this? Doubts seized me and at first I thought that the two strips were a reaction to my growing tumor, but when I first passed hCG, all doubts were dispelled .... But that's a completely different story. By the way, during pregnancy I read prayers to the Mother of God and the Psalter every day, I didn’t miss a single day, I went to church until last month and did not stop thanking God for the happiness sent from above, the whole pregnancy passed in a state of euphoria.

Why did I write so much here? After going my way for 5 years, for myself I made the following conclusions:

Each of us has our own path on the path to happiness, for someone in a month, six months, a year or even two, it seems to me a little.

Someone waits for years and waits, finally, like us.

Someone is waiting and will never wait.

Someone just needs to change themselves, their lives, look at themselves from the outside. After all, sleep and beside girls-hochushki envy pregnant women and women with children. And by the way, I was also like that, as I remember, I hate myself for it. How badly I spoke about my husband’s relatives (he has two native nieces, said that they were strangers to us, that they didn’t need to give gifts, envied his wife when she became pregnant with her second daughter). Now I remember, I can’t believe that I could think and talk about them like that before. My attitude did not change immediately, but gradually, probably, as I approached God.

You should not treat God and the saints in a consumerist way, naively believing, as I once did, that now I will do this and that, and God will certainly hear me and reward me. You just need to correct your life, work on yourself, eradicate bad qualities and traits in yourself. Writing notes to the saints is, of course, good, but you also need to work before God too ....? I repeat, in no case am I teaching anyone, I am simply sharing my thoughts on this topic.

God gives us time to think about correcting, to look and think about what we are doing wrong and why the long-awaited kids do not appear in our lives. Maybe there are some circumstances preventing this event, be it a bad job, as in my case, an untreated sore, etc. Maybe the time has simply not come yet. But enough has been written about this before me.

My husband knows nothing and never will. Only my mother knows, who forced me to have an abortion, for which she repents very deeply. Once she even told me: “But in our life everything could be different .... Once in the temple, a guy approached her, a little strange or holy fool, and asked her: “How is your granddaughter? ". To which my mother replied that she had no grandchildren yet ... ... Strange. Then I almost burst into tears ...... Now my mother and I never discuss this topic, immediately after the birth of my daughter, my mother ordered all possible thanksgiving prayers. And I, in turn, every day do not stop thanking God for forgiving me and giving us such a long-awaited happiness ...

OK it's all over Now. Thanks to everyone who took the time and energy to read to the end. And I wish all of you who want to not give up, knock, ask, and it will be given to you according to your faith.

For some women, things happen quickly. I didn’t even have time to want, and two happy stripes had already appeared on the test. Needless to say about those who did not even have a child in their thoughts - but he is born and that's it. Why do we, those who so passionately want a baby, do not have children? Why doesn't God give children to me? Why is life so unfair? These questions are asked by thousands of women around the world. And not finding the answer, they suffer a lot.

The problem of conceiving and bearing a child is faced by different women at different periods of their lives. Why don't they have children? Each has its own backstory, its own pain. I do not want to analyze the problem in this article in the way it is usually done. For example, blame early abortions or neglect of the genitourinary system in youth. Or look for sins and sins in the so tormented female soul, as religious people do. Or blame the damage from evil dependants for everything, as fortune tellers do, trying to answer the question why there are no children.

What to do when doctors say that you are absolutely healthy, but you can’t get pregnant? Where can I find the answer to the question: "Why are there no children?"

Do not despair! But you also don't have to put up with it. It is necessary to act, to work with yourself, no matter how strange it may sound. After all, the answer to the question "Why don't we have children?" often lies in psychology. Below we will talk about how this happens.

Woman and child: from stereotypes to reality

There is a stereotype that all women must give birth to a child. The reasons are called different: children will brighten up a lonely old age and bring a glass of water on their deathbed, children are the flowers of life, children are wonderful.

But it is not so. Women are different and each has a different desire for the birth of a child. Of course, for the majority, everything happens simply: girls get married and give birth without thinking too much about their desires.

But there are other options. There are women who do not feel like giving birth at all, they are afraid of this process and feel completely insecure with babies. There are those who have the desire to give birth, but they are pressed by a painful question a la: "why give birth to children, if we are all just a handful of dust and sooner or later we will die ... why doom a new person, our own child, to suffering in advance ?"

And there are also women who understand that the child will be too much of a burden for them, because after giving birth they will have to completely surrender to the baby. For women who are often lost in their thoughts, used to staying up late and getting up at noon, may forget to eat or wash, the very idea of ​​​​changing all this looks too painful. Then it will no longer be possible to be alone when you want to, your whole life will depend on the child, who constantly needs to be taken care of.

A woman often cannot admit, even to herself, in such feelings. Such feelings, fear of motherhood, dislike for the child, hidden deep in the soul, excessively shameful and do not fit into the general stereotype of motherhood.

I want but I can not

Every year more and more women who want to conceive, but they do not succeed. Today, medicine has made a huge step and allows you to simplify, facilitate conception and childbirth. It gives a chance to a lot of people, but not to everyone. Why? Because the cause of problems with conception lies in an area that has not been sufficiently studied by doctors. And this is not esoteric. It is impossible to beg a child from God, there may be difficulties with conception with an incorrect hormonal background, an unfavorable environment for this.

In no case should you turn to fortune-tellers and witches for help with conceiving a child. This will not bring any positive result, but fears may increase, not to mention wasted money.

Need real desire

Sometimes you need to verbalize your fears, understand your true desires and the reasons for the fear of motherhood. The desire to become a mother should be real - not imposed by society, not created by stereotypes. If in the soul, somewhere very deeply there is even the slightest doubt or fear, you must definitely pull it out - this can be the real reason for failure. Remember, the fact that you do not yet have a long-awaited child is not a sentence.

What to do to make it appear? What prayer to read for God to give a child?

Is it true that God gives children? Yes its true. But try to look at this issue from a non-religious point of view. The God who gives children is nature, harmonious and precise.

We are all fixated today on medicine and it seems to us that the problem of not having children is just a disorder with physical health. But in fact, our psychology is primary, but physical health secondary and directly related to internal states. By understanding yourself, you can change your health, hormonal levels and get the opportunity to become pregnant. Such results already exist.

How to beg a child from God? Instead of praying, you need to deal with your psychology, understand yourself, find your exact desires, recognize your fears.

How to do it? Today there is a training in system-vector psychology by Yuri Burlan. It takes place online and is available anywhere in the world. To connect to free lectures, which take place approximately once a month, you only need a computer and the Internet. This training gives each listener the greatest knowledge - an understanding of oneself and one's desires, as well as knowledge of the psychology of others, an understanding of their subconscious.

Every woman has a period in her life when she wants to become a mother. The first pregnancy, the first excitement and fear - every woman wants to experience this at least once.

One man had two wives, Fennana and Anna. Fennana had two children, but Anna did not.

Fennana constantly urged Anna to murmur against God, because she could not have children, because she was completely barren.

The husband often asked Anna, is he really not better than ten sons ?! But Anna only wept bitterly and prayed. Once in her prayer, she made a vow to God that if she gave birth to a boy, she would give him to serve God.

After some time, Anna conceived a son, whom she later named Samuel.

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But, unfortunately, not every woman can give birth to a child. This may be due to any disease.

Medicine can be powerless in the fight against the conception of a child.

A man and a woman begin to take various tests, undergo examinations. But sometimes the tests are all normal, but it still doesn’t work to conceive a child. As a result, medicine is powerless.

Then the person begins to ask for help from the Higher powers. There are special prayers for asking a child from God.

Let us analyze separately what kind of prayers they are and who needs to pray in such cases.

You can beg a child from God with constant prayers, humility and patience.

How to beg a child from God? First you need to understand that the birth of a child is a gift from God.

The birth of a child in a family is a great gift from God

What you need to do to beg a child from God:

• to accept the will of God, or rather to come to terms with his decision;
• as often as possible, young parents need to confess their sins and take communion;
• visit the temple every Sunday;
• keep the commandments of the Lord;
• keep fasts;
• read prayers not only in the temple, but also at home before conception itself.

Above all, you need to have patience. And this is very difficult for many people. But if you decide to become parents, then this is simply necessary. You can’t leave what you started halfway, the Lord will definitely not help such people.

That is why it is possible to beg a child from God only with prayers, humility and patience.

If you want to correctly ask God for a child, consider the following 4 factors

Not many people know how to properly ask God for a child. To ask correctly, you need to correctly approach the reading of prayers.

• your mood. The most important thing is that you have the attitude to read the prayer. Without it, doing anything simply does not make sense. First you need to calm down and understand if you really need it. Only with a calm soul and a pure heart can one begin to read a prayer;
• your sincerity. Each prayer read must be read sincerely. After all, God will not be able to help you if you do not believe in all this at all, but simply read a prayer without hope and faith. The main thing is to believe - then your prayers to God will be heard;
• your convenience and comfort. It doesn't matter where you will pray, at home, in the forest, at work. The main thing is that in the place where you will pray, you feel comfortable and comfortable;
• your time to read the prayers. Never even think that you have spent too much or too little time in prayer. In general, there is no such thing, and nowhere is it written how much time you need to pray. Everyone sets their own time for themselves. You can read prayers for 10 minutes, or you can 5.

The most important thing to understand is that you need to ask from the heart and with a pure heart. And at the same time, be sure to believe that God will definitely help you. Sometimes you can do without prayers, but just turn to God in simple terms about help.

5 saints who need to pray for the birth of a child

There are 5 saints to turn to:

1. Mother Matrona.
2. Holy Prophet Zechariah and Elizabeth.
3. Saint Luke.
4. Peter and Fevronia.
5. Alexander Svirsky.

Very often, young girls pray to Mother Matrona. She helps during marriage, and for adult couples to conceive a child. Why is she? Even during her lifetime, Matrona helped all the suffering. But you can contact her only when you ask for it sincerely.

Mother Matrona is a strong intercessor before God

Prayer to Matrona:

Oh, blessed mother Matrona,

we resort to your intercession and we tearfully pray to you.

Like having great boldness in the Lord, pour out a warm prayer for your servants,

those who are in sorrow of the soul and those who ask for help from you.

For the word of the Lord is true: ask, and it is given to you, and again: as if you are consulting two of you,

on earth about every thing, even if she asks, she will be from My Father, who is in Heaven.

Hear our sighing and bring it to the throne of the Lord, and where you stand before us,

as the prayer of the righteous can do much before God. May the Lord not completely forget us,

but from the height of heaven he looks down on the sorrow of his servants and bestows the fruit of the womb on useful things.

Verily, God wants thee, so do the Lord to Abraham and Sarah, Zechariah and Elisabeth,

Joachim and Anna, pray with him. May the Lord God do this to us also by His mercy and inexpressible love of mankind.

May the name of the Lord be blessed from now and forever. Amen.

The Holy Prophet Zechariah and Righteous Elizabeth were the parents of the Prophet Forerunner John the Baptist.

It was these people who lived spiritually and were blameless. But Elizabeth was barren. They prayed for a very long time.

And one day during the service, an angel appeared to Zacharias and said that his wife was expecting a child. But Zechariah did not believe and decided at a loss for words.

Prayer of Zechariah and Elizabeth:

Oh, holy saints of God, the prophet Zechariah and the righteous Elisabeth!

Having labored on earth with a good feat, they naturally received the crown of truth in heaven,

which the Lord has prepared for all who love Him.

Meanwhile, looking at your holy image, we rejoice in the glorious end of your residence and honor your holy memory.

You, standing before the Throne of God, accept our prayers and bring to the All-Merciful God,

about the hedgehog to forgive us every sin and help us become against the wiles of the devil,

yes, getting rid of sorrows, illnesses, troubles and misfortunes and all evil,

Let us live piously and righteously in this present age and be worthy of your intercession,

if not worthy of Esma, to see the good on the land of the living,

glorifying the One in His saints glorifying God, the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit,

now and forever and ever. Amen.

To conceive a child, you can turn to St. Luke. In this case, you need to come to the temple and buy 3 candles. put one - Mother of God, one - to the Savior and the third - to St. Luke.

At the same time, approaching the icon of St. Luke, you need to say the following words: Miraculous Luke, intercede for me before the Lord God and send down the Immaculate Conception. Amen.

“Beloved of the Lord, miraculous Luke, intercede for me before our Heavenly Creator!

Exalt my prayer to the throne of our Lord Most High.

May He grant me the happiness of conception.

How great is your strength, so I need the blessing of the Lord! Amen".

Saints Peter and Fevronia are, as it were, a symbol of love and fidelity. They are the model of the family and are considered the protectors of all families.

Therefore, by reading a prayer to Peter and Fevronia, you can not only conceive a child, but also strengthen your family relationships.

Prayer to Peter and Fevronia:

Holy Saints of the Lord, Prince Peter and Princess Fevronia!

I resort to you, sinner, and with weeping I pray for your grace-filled mercy!

Offer up my prayers for (it is necessary to name the names of the spouses), and ask the King of the Most High to send us various graces:

right faith, good hope, sincere love, unshakable piety, and prosperity in good deeds.

Do not despise my prayer, but exalt it before the Heavenly Throne of our Lord Jesus Christ.

May I raise up the immeasurable love of mankind of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit in all ages of ages. Amen".

About the birth of a son - you can read a prayer to St. Alexander Svirsky

There are special prayers for the birth of a child, but the main thing is trust in God. The main thing is to believe, and the Lord himself will decide who to send to the family - a boy or a girl.

There is, for example, a prayer for the birth of a son to St. Alexander Svirsky.

Before his birth, Alexander's parents prayed for a very long time for a son to be born. And they succeeded, the Lord, through their prayers, gave them a son.

Alexander Svirsky is a Russian Orthodox saint. Memorial Day April 30 and September 12

Therefore, everyone who wants a male child needs to read a prayer to Alexander Svirsky:

O sacred head, earthly angel and heavenly man,

Our reverend and God-bearing Father Alexandra, a fair servant of the Most Holy and Consubstantial Trinity,

many mercy to those living in your holy abode and to all who flow to you with faith and love, show!

Ask us everything for this temporary life, useful, and even more necessary for our eternal salvation.

Contribute to your intercession, servant of God, the ruler of our country.

And may the saint abide deep in the world Orthodox Church Christ.

Be to all of us, miracle-working saint, in every sorrow and circumstance, a quick helper.

Most of all, at the hour of our death, a merciful intercessor appeared to us, but let us not betray the evil world-keeper at the ordeals of the air power,

but may we be vouchsafed an unshakable ascent into the Kingdom of Heaven.

Hey, Father, our prayer book is dear!

Do not disgrace our hope, do not despise our humble prayers,

but always intercede for us before the Throne of the Life-Giving Trinity,

let us be honored together with you and with all the saints, even if you are unworthy of Esma,

in the villages of paradise glorify the greatness, grace and mercy of the One in the Trinity of God,

Father and Son and Holy Spirit, forever and ever. Amen.

Prayer for conception can be ordered - to the holy fathers of God Joachim and Anna

And very often about the gift of a family and the conception of children, they order a prayer service to Joachim and Anna.

Saints Joachim and Anna are the parents Holy Mother of God. Their life was so righteous and pure that Anna was able to bring the Virgin Mary into the world.

These two people always trusted God in everything, not when they did not make plans, did not grieve about how they would live, whether they would have money or food. They always relied on God, for which they received a great reward.

Therefore, if you decide to order a prayer service for the birth of a child, then order it for them.

And only with sincere prayers and requests to God can you get what you want, the main thing is to believe.

Nowadays, more and more couples are faced with the problem of conceiving a child. Very often, medicine is powerless. Analyzes, expensive courses of treatment, hormonal preparations have no result. Many in such situations despair, lose all hope. In no case should you give up, and if people are unable to help, you should turn to the Lord and pray for the conception of a child will help.

Not all people believe in great power the Lord who can work miracles. And when faced with a problem, they look for help in different places. And, often, only in despair, they turn to Heaven.

Living without the joy of motherhood is very difficult. Looking at surrounding parents with fidgety little ones is simply unbearable if a woman cannot have her own child. Sometimes prayers to the powers of the Lord are the only chance for salvation. There are several saints, patrons of the conception and birth of a child. You can apply to someone in particular, or to all at once.

Why can't you conceive?

According to the Bible, it is believed that the birth of a child is a gift from God, presented from above. Perhaps barrenness is a kind of punishment for the sins of one's own or one's kind. It can also be the result of promiscuous sexual relations, many betrayals, a promiscuous life. In any case, this is some kind of sign, providence from above. You need to show patience and humility in your prayers.

How to pray for the conception of a child?

There is no one scheme for all. First of all, you must accept the will of God, humble yourself and obey. It should not be a selfish request, but an act of giving in return. It is necessary to completely trust the Lord, to believe in his power and grace. And have patience, don't despair.

It often happens that an infertile couple takes a child from an orphanage and through a short time a miracle happens, a woman becomes pregnant. No wonder it says that prayer for the conception of a child works wonders, although it can be difficult to accurately interpret which ones.

Also, it is desirable for a married couple to confess their sins, repent and take communion. And then, with a pure soul, proceed to prayers. At the same time, it is necessary to adhere to the commandments of the Lord, to lead a righteous life, you can.

You should pray not only in the temple, but also at home, especially before the act of conception, be sure to pronounce the words "Thy will be done". After all, the birth of a child is nothing but the will of our Lord.

What are the prayers?

There are several common prayers for conceiving a child. The most famous:

• prayer to the Lord
• Saint Xenia of Petersburg
• Mother Matrona
• Holy Mother of God
• Alexander Svirsky

Mother Matrona

Prayer to the Lord

Naturally, the Lord is able to work miracles. We turn to him on every occasion, ask for help, protection. The first one to hear our petitions for a child, of course, will be the Lord. Therefore, young spouses necessarily cry out to him for the gift of an heir.

Lord, remember me, your unworthy servant, and deliver me from my barrenness, so that I may be material. Give us a child who would be both a joy in life and a support in our old age. God, I bow to Your Majesty, forgive me for all my sins and send me a healthy full-fledged baby, and if You give it to me, then save it and help me bring it to the deadline, and I will always praise and praise You. Amen, Lord, Jesus Christ, Son of God, forgive me, sinful and hopeless, spare my fierce infirmity and look at my prayer! Accept this prayer of mine and fulfill the desire of my heart, grant me my baby for good and help me bear the cross of motherhood for our salvation. Amen.

Prayer to Mother Matrona

Very often, young and unmarried virgins ask for blessings from Mother Matrona of Moscow. It is believed that she is the patroness of suffering girls. She helps young people in marriage, and mature couples in conception. Why is that? If you read about the earthly life of Matrona, you can understand that she always helped the suffering, is a strong intercessor before the Lord. But only those who sincerely repent should turn to her. And it has the greatest effect in the Moscow temple, where part of her shirt is kept.

Oh, blessed mother Matrona, we resort to your intercession and we tearfully pray to you. As if you have great boldness in the Lord, pour out a warm prayer for your servants, who are in sorrow of the soul and ask for help from you. For the word of the Lord is true: ask, and it is given to you and again: as if you counsel two of you, on earth about every thing, even if she asks, she will be from My Father, who is in Heaven. Hear our sighing and convey to the throne of the Lord, and even if you stand before us, as the prayer of the righteous can do much before God. May the Lord not completely forget us, but look from the heights of heaven on the sorrow of His servants and bestow the fruit of the womb on useful things. Truly, God desires, so do the Lord to Abraham and Sarah, Zechariah and Elisabeth, Joachim and Anna, pray with him. May the Lord God do this to us also by His mercy and inexpressible love of mankind. May the name of the Lord be blessed from now and forever. Amen.

Prayer to the Most Holy Theotokos

Oh, Blessed Virgin, Mother of the Lord Most High, quick-obedient intercessor of all who resort to You with faith! Look from the height of Your heavenly majesty on me, indecent, crouching to Your icon, hear soon the humble prayer of me, a sinner, and bring it to Your Son; implore Him to enlighten dark soul my light of His Divine grace and cleanse my mind from vain thoughts, may it calm my suffering heart and heal its wounds, may it instruct me to do good deeds and strengthen me to work for Him with fear, may it forgive all the evil that I have done, may it deliver eternal torment and not deprive me of His Heavenly Kingdom. Oh, Blessed Mother of God! You deigned to be named in Your Georgian image, commanding everyone to flow to You in faith, do not despise me for sorrow and do not let me perish in the abyss of my sins. On Thee, according to Bose, all my hope and hope of salvation, and I entrust Your protection and intercession to myself forever. I praise and thank the Lord for sending me the happiness of the marital state. I beg You, Mother of the Lord and God and my Savior, that with Your Maternal prayers she will send me and my wife to my beloved child. May He give me the fruit of my womb. May it be arranged according to His will, to His glory. Change the sorrows of my soul to the joy of conception in my womb. May I praise and thank You, Mother of my Lord, all the days of my life. Amen.

Holy Prophet Zechariah and Elizabeth

Oh, holy saints of God, the prophet Zechariah and the righteous Elisabeth! Having fought a good feat on earth, you naturally received in heaven the crown of righteousness, which the Lord has prepared for all those who love Him. Meanwhile, looking at your holy image, we rejoice in the glorious end of your residence and honor your holy memory. You, standing before the Throne of God, accept our prayers and bring to the All-Merciful God, to forgive us every sin and help us become against the wiles of the devil, and get rid of sorrows, illnesses, troubles and misfortunes and all evil, we will piously and righteously live in the present forever and let us be honored by your intercession, if not worthy of us, to see the good on the land of the living, glorifying the One in His saints glorifying God, the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit, now and forever and ever. Amen.

Prayer of spouses for the gift of children

Hear us, Merciful and Almighty God, may Your grace be sent down by our prayer. Be merciful, Lord, to our prayer, remember Your Law on the multiplication of the human race and be a merciful Patron, so that by Your help the established by You will be preserved. You, by Your powerful power, created everything from nothing and laid the foundation for everything in the world that exists, created man in Your image and sanctified the union of matrimony and the foreknowledge of the mystery of Christ's unity with the Church with a high mystery. Look, Merciful, upon Your servants (names), united by marriage and begging for Your help, may Your mercy be upon them, may they be fruitful and may they see the son of their sons even to the third and fourth generation and live to the desired old age and will enter the kingdom of heaven through our Lord Jesus Christ, to whom all glory, honor and worship is due with the Holy Spirit forever.

Each prayer for the conception of a child will have power if you sincerely believe in our Lord, and have pure thoughts and soul!

The power of faith lies in the fact that it can help where medicine is powerless. So, in particular, even such a diagnosis as infertility can be overcome by diligently and sincerely asking the Almighty for a newborn.

The Power of Prayer

The birth of a child is happiness for everyone With the arrival of a baby in the family, a bright joy descends into the house. But sometimes the long-awaited miracle never happens. Diseases, incompatibility, infertility become a barrier between parents and the baby.

If you are a pious person, with a pure soul, then the prayer for the birth of a child will bring crumbs to your home. But such a ritual should be treated with the utmost responsibility and seriousness.

Before reading a prayer, choose a saint to whom the words will be directed. Also, do not forget that thoughts must be pure. Get rid of bad habits and negative thoughts.

Prayer for the birth of a child should strengthen your faith. Visit a church, repent, make a pilgrimage to holy places, have a conversation with priests and monks. Remember, God will help those who sincerely and unconditionally believe in his power.

Blessing begins with a wedding before God

IN modern world couples are less likely to go to church for blessings. Some attribute this to atheism, others want to test their feelings through a civil marriage, others believe that such a ceremony is a waste of time. But when problems arise with lovers, they go out of their way to become parents. They do not think about the fact that before the church and God they are not spouses.

Having visited a bunch of doctors, dozens of healers and having tried all the remedies recommended by friends, do not despair. All that remains is a prayer for the birth of a child. Although it was faith that was supposed to be the first assistant in such a situation. For such couples to be blessed for pregnancy and the birth of a healthy baby, they need to go through the Sacrament of the Wedding.

Thousands of families assure that without this rite there is a lack of something significant in the family. These emotions are deeply rooted. A woman and a man who live together without being married in the house of God are sinners before heaven, because they give birth to vice. Such a marriage is not compatible with the canons of Christianity. And lovers who take an oath in church will receive support from God in difficult situations. For married couples, the birth prayer has more power and gives a better result.

Baby - the desire of two loving hearts

Conversation with God is ongoing. Prayers sound loudest when they are said together. Therefore, both father and mother should desire the child equally. Conversations with the Almighty should not be just a mechanical performance of a ritual, but a conscious, clear message. Talking to him is a touch to his essence. Through the rites of Orthodoxy, we can feel it as closely as possible.

Precisely because the prayer for the safe birth of a child is a dialogue that is conducted with God, the couple should read it together. Such a procedure will not only bring them closer to the Father, but also open them in a new way to each other.

A prayer in which they ask for pregnancy and the birth of a healthy baby can be found in church books. Spouses who want a baby can pray in front of home icons on their knees or standing. Don't forget to bow and cross yourself. When the baby is born, prayer after the birth of the child will be appropriate.

Another significant detail is that in each request you need to say gratitude for everything that is, and repent of your sins. Also, pray not only for yourself, but also for your neighbors and enemies. Remember, God is more merciful to those who show mercy themselves.

Protector of all mothers and children

The traditions of Christianity are very ancient. From time immemorial, churches were built on the graves of martyrs, who, even after death, continued to work miracles and heal hopelessly sick people.

The Mother of God is the protector of all women. The Virgin Mary, who gave birth to Jesus Christ, is one of the most miraculous saints. It is to her that they turn with requests to heal from infertility and bestow children. A prayer for the birth of a child to the Mother of God can be read anywhere and at any time. The main thing with such an action is a sincere desire.

You can also ask for support from the righteous Joachim and Anna, the parents of the Virgin, who were childless for a long time. They firmly believed in God, and he rewarded them with Mary.

How to ask for help from the Virgin?

Often it is despair that makes one turn to the church. But the man who visits the temple of God from sorrow to sorrow, higher power as a sign of punishment they can send one of the biggest troubles - waiting. Therefore, the first person to expect help from is the Virgin Mary. Her kindness and love saves the world.

The prayer for the birth of a child with infertility to the Mother of God sounds like this:

"Holy Virgin! Blessed are You among all women. You found out You were holding Your heavenly child in your arms. She caressed him, loved him, loved him and protected him. Mother of God! Blessed are You among all people. She gave birth to a healthy, clean, kind son. It is in Your power to help us fulfill the goal of our modest life, to continue our kind. Your servants (names) bow their heads before You. We are in despair. Grant us the greatest of earthly gifts - healthy children. May they grow and glorify the name of the Lord. They will become our joy, our anxiety, our love. Ask for us, Mary, from the Almighty. And forgive us sinners, Mother of God. Amen".

Moscow saint

A prayer for the birth of a child by the Matrona of Moscow can be proclaimed directly in front of the relics of Matushka in the Intercession Monastery or at her grave at the Danilovsky cemetery in Moscow. You can also ask for a baby in a saint by standing at her icon.

Saint Matrona was born in 1881 on the territory of the modern Tula province. Since childhood, she was blind, and her parents seriously considered the possibility of giving the girl to an orphanage. But Matrona's mother changed her mind after the dream. In a haze, a white blind bird of magical beauty sat on her chest. The dream predicted a bright future. That is why the child was abandoned. Mother's gift is the ability to heal people. People from all over the country came to her for help.

Before her death, the saint said that believers could come to her even after her death. She will hear them from the other world and will do everything possible for their happiness.

Appeal to Saint Matrona

Prayer for the birth of a child, Matrona of Moscow, will help couples who want, but cannot have a baby. The call to Mother is as follows:

“Mother, Blessed Matrona! You are chosen among the people. Your healing hands, your kind heart, your pure soul. You are now standing before the Almighty, the only and just God. Now the sky is your home. But you do not leave us, earthly sinners, you take care of your children. Help us, Mother Matrona. It is in your power to give us happiness to become parents. Find your ray in life. It is in your will to help us conceive, endure, give birth to him, and then teach him to praise you, Matrona. Mother of Moscow, let your children feel the love of their descendants and give them your boundless love. Amen".

Fundamentals of the sacrament of the rite

Both the wife and the husband should ask for a child from the Savior. Before the birth prayer is said healthy child, potential parents should be prepared. The main thing they must do is to ask for forgiveness from God and cleanse their souls from sins. After all, most often it is a person whose soul is sinful that has health problems. Including infertility. Repentance will make healthy not only the soul, but also the body.

Attempts to conceive a child must be on permitted days. So, the church does not recommend making love on the days of fasting, as well as on the eve of them (the days of fasting are Wednesday and Friday, their eve is Tuesday and Thursday after 16:00). It is undesirable to make attempts to get pregnant on Sunday and on the eve of big church holidays. Also, you should not sleep immediately after the wedding. On such a day, the couple is consecrated and blessed for later life, so you should not associate the Sacrament of the Wedding with carnal pleasures.

If you do not understand the meaning of prayers or they seem foreign to you, do not worry. Personal prayer does not require special skills. These are just thoughts, the main thing is that they be sincere.

Baptism as protection from everything bad for the child

When the mercy of the Lord descends on you, and you find out about your pregnancy, it's time to thank the one who performed the miracle. It is also good if a prayer before the birth of a child is added to daily prayers. Such a ritual helps to find peace of mind.

Regular communion will have a great effect on both the future mother and the unborn baby. Pregnant women do not fast as strictly as other believers. But light fasting is replaced by reading spiritual literature and alms. After the birth of the long-awaited child, it is desirable to baptize on the fortieth day. So new person will not only grow according to the laws of God, but will have its patrons in heaven who will protect it. - this is, first of all, the birth of a child for God, their unity.

Why doesn't God give children?

Today, more and more couples have health problems. Along with medical ailments, the church advises to think about your spiritual life. After all, these two aspects closely interact with each other.

Prayer for the birth of a child with infertility is the stage of accepting a heaven-sent destiny. The main thing in this case is not to lose hope. If the spouses fail to conceive a child, maybe the Almighty has prepared another mission for them. The purpose of this pair may be a feat that not everyone is capable of. For example, perhaps the calling of these spouses to become the parents of a destitute child, one that was abandoned.

However, in any case, do not despair, God will always hear you!